"Yaaay!" party time on Saturday...I can't wait...My plan of action list is...Sir at least 4 spankings...We usually manage about 4...Plus...Magicwand...Missed playing with him at the last party we went to in August..."Gawd!" has it been that long...Anyway...I am also going to play with Mr Marker have already asked him on face book...It will be his 50th sooo he has got to give 50 spankings lol...Nooo not really...
Then there is EddieB if he is going & Artery...Ohhh & any other nice Doms who come & talk to me...If of course I feel comfortable playing with them...In more ways then one lol...Oops I forgot Smac...Must play with Smac he is really good at spanking...A close second to Sir...Who of course will always come first in my mind...{Yes I am grovelling}
I am getting quite excited now...Only 4 days to go...
I have been too busy decorating to write about the 2 spankings I have had in the last month...See life does not evolve around spanking lol...Not that I could ever take it or leave it...I would be climbing the walls rather then painting the walls if I had to go with out spanking...{{{HeeHee}}}...but then...I think I am veeery lucky cos I have reached the stage in my spanking scene life where I know JUST what I want...& with whom...Which feels great...
Nooo more wanna be arrogant sooo called Doms who believe that it is more fun for them if they are "In my head"..."Get out you might get hurt" lol...rather then spanking my bottom...
Seriously though...I am into "Spanking"...I love being spanked...I don't like being punished "Trained!"..."Controled!"...Given stupid tasks like "Don't wear knickers"...Why? Why should I not wear knickers? What does that achieve?...Ohhh yeah I spose I would be obeying my "Master"...Ummm!...
Thank you Sir for never asking me to do anything other then "Over my knee young lady"...Mmmm! now words like that send a tingle right through me...."I am going to give you a thrashing" {{{Sighsss}}} lol...& lots of other words Sir says to me whilst we are playing...
I know each to their own...Everyone has their own likes & dislikes...Everyone has certain things which REALLY get them going...I suppose what I am trying to say is...I have reached a stage in my spanking scene life where I will go for the things I want & avoid the things I don't...Plus..."I am entitled to my own opinion" The same as everyone else...This is my blog so there nuh! {{{Grins}}}
That said...
Sir recieved this PM...
Hi ya,
I have recently opened my own site www.topbottomandswitches.com I have had a word with l4 and she is happy to have Karen sign up as as member as well. It might be an idea if she signed up with a slightly different nic, so she can be accepted for who she is rather than who she was, if you see what I mean.
All future parties will only be advertised on the new site. It doesn't have a chat room just yet, but will soon.
Look forward to seeing you both there.
S xxx
When I first read that I must admit my first response...The one which popped into my head was "**ck off!"...The wall I was painting after I read that got painted very fast lol...
They seem to forget that I chose to leave Bs...I personally asked to be deleted from the site cos I was fed up with all the gossiping & back stabbing...{Still am}...I was told something about admin & blah dee blah dee blah...My account never got deleted but I did get banned when R my hubbies ex sub posted a response to all the gossiping & back stabbing...Nothing to do with me it was her doing the none stop posting as it got deleted lol...Then there was my dear hubby in there giving his opinion which they deleted...Fine but why buddle me in with what they was doing...Why not just delete me as I asked instead of banning me for life...
Hmmm!...I have been going to the Bs parties for the last 6 yrs...{3 1/2 yrs with Sir}Playing...drinking red wine with my friend...Talking to people...I have not been causing trouble unlike some people...There has been nooo dramatics from me...Never will be I am going to play & socialize to the best of my quiet ability...
Going back to the PM & the invite...When I got it all into perspective it is just that...A invite to join their group...I will prolly get around to joining the group cos Sir asked me to join the group with him..even though he said I did not have to join if I didn't want to...
I have still got a LOT of bad memories attached to Bs...As is prolly very common in a online forum things get taken out of context...twisted...After all there is nothing exciting about normal every day life lol...but...I like my boring mundane unexciting undramatic nooo gossip value life {{{HeeHee}}}
Mind you when I think about it...I like my uneventful life but it always seems to turn into a soap opera lol...The gossip about R & my husband was a LOT! more exciting & entertaining then the actual truth...Not helped by the biggest gossip of all spreading around the LOT more dramatic entertaining version..."Ohhh look I have got gossip you like me mooore now don't you"...Nooo mate your still a twat!...
When it comes down to it...You are a fat ugly old man smacking a woman's bare bum...Your nothing special...{EB said something like that it cracked me up lol...A man after my own heart...down to earth sees it & says it as it is}Your not "THE!" Master...Your just a person with a kink for spanking..."Get over your self & learn some social skills"...
Oops sorry there I go again remembering...reacting...When it is waaay in the past & I am having a great time being spanked by the perfect Dom for me...regularly...
Sooo for the confused...I am waffling on & on giving my opinion in my blog & saying "I am still the same person"...Though over the last few years with ALL the crap I have been through with certain people...I have learned how to deal with them..."Don't go there"...Avoid all two faced gossiping sad pathetic people who are people skilled challenged...People skills does not mean being out going...People skills means knowing how to be loyal...respectful...kind...caring...Have the ability to NOT ***t on your so called friends cos YOU think you get more attention...from the people who are not actually your real friends...
There are lots more nice genuine people in the scene then not...I have just had the misfortune to have got too close for comfort to a few with serious mental problems...
Okay I've finished now...Prolly banned from that site before joining now {{{HeeHee}}}...Ohhh yeah I must add...If people look up my nic in Bs "Sweetlytormented1" they won't find any nasty,bitchy coments...I wrote one "Inteligent!" comment in defense of my husband...in response to a rude self opininated comment...I was not rude...Why was you? Why when we are face to face at parties are you not sooo strong with your views lol...
I must also add cos it reads like I am one of those people in Bs who have ongoing virtual forum rows for everyone to read..."One" little comment not a ongoing "Public!" row...The only person I had a problem with at that time was my so called Master who spread lots of gossip even though he knew the truth cos at that time I trusted him with the truth...A lot of the time people get EVERYthing out of context...
To be honest I don't want to put myself in that situation EVER! again...
Right rant over for now...Back to coffee & painting...In that order lol...
Ohhh yeah Ty Brian for a wonderful day...I really enjoyed it too...You are one of the genuine ones in the scene...Which of course there are a lot more then the gossips & back stabbers...Genuine people who are into "Spanking" & other kinks...People who could not careless that so & so fell out with such & such "We DON'T care!"...
There I go again using my blog to voice "My" opinion...lol...
Definitely going now............................................................................................................
Ohhh wait one more thing...The reason we go to the parties is cos there are lots of nice respectful "Genuine" people...That is why my vanilla {As in none spanking} friend enjoys the parties...If you knew Kim you would definitely not call her "Vanilla" lol...Ask Kim about the cinema & how much of the film she actually watches...{{{HeeHee}}}...
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Made me laugh. :-D Not only is the picture itself funny, but she pulls of
that "Oh no!" expression SO well. Anyone have any idea where this statue
is?????...
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